Put Yourself Out There
- Say yes to one new social opportunity a week (club meeting, lunch with a peer, etc.)
- Start small conversations: “Where are you from?” or “What’s your major?” are great conversation starters
Pioneers Together
Find your People, Share your Heart
Pioneers Together is all about helping students find their people and feel genuinely connected during their time at Sacred Heart. Whether you're still figuring out where you fit, hoping to meet new friends, or looking to get more involved, this initiative brings the whole campus community together to make connections easier and more natural.
Through welcoming events, student-led programs and simple tips to put yourself out there, Pioneers Together helps you build confidence, discover new communities and create the kind of relationships that make campus feel like home—because nobody should have to navigate college alone. Together, Pioneers support each other every step of the way.
Take That First Step
Feeling connected to other people helps us respond and handle stress. But reaching out to can feel intimidating and awkward at first.
It's okay. It's normal.
Many people struggle with knowing when and how to reach out and make friends.
It's okay. It's normal.
Showing up at a campus event or program alone might feel weird. Know that others are feeling the same way, and are waiting for someone to talk to them!
It's okay. It's normal.
Find Your People
This is your starting point if you’re hoping to meet friends, get involved or feel more at home on campus. The “Find Your People” Initiative offers easy ways to explore SHU communities, plus practical tips on how to connect with others, from starting conversations to putting yourself out there. You’ll also find links to mental health resources, so you can get support, build confidence and take care of yourself while building your SHU community.
Tips & Strategies
Be Together, Not Alone
- Don’t want to go to larger events alone? Come to the Pitt Stop beforehand and walk over with a group
- Be a regular somewhere: Hawley Lounge, the Valentine Health and Recreation Center, or your favorite study spot — familiar faces become familiar friends!
Use Campus Resources
- Follow @shufirstyearprograms and @shu.involvement for info on events and ways to get connected on campus
- Intimidated to leave your residence hall? Start small by attending your RSA’s programming — familiar space, familiar faces and lots of fun
Resources
Step 1: Sign In
Go to SHU Engage and sign in with your SHU credentials. On the homepage, scroll to the “Join a Club” section.
Step 2: Explore
Type an interest into the search bar and browse clubs or student offices that catch your eye. Click on a club to view its page where you will find upcoming events and meeting times.
Step 3: Join and Connect
Click “Join group.” On the club page, open the "Officers" section and click the president’s name to get their email. Send a quick email to getinvolved@sacredheart.edu, letting them know you joined and would like to be added to the email list. You can also contact Student Involvement directly for more information.
Sample Message:
Subject: Joined (club name) on SHU Engage
Hello (president's name),
My name is (your name) and I just joined (club name) on SHU Engage. I am reaching out to be added to all future communications, as well as to find out when and where club meetings will be held. I am looking forward to meeting you!
Thank you!
(Your Name)
Step 4: Attend the Meeting
Attend the first meeting, introduce yourself and start a conversation with the person sitting next to you! Don’t wait for others to make the first move!
Get in touch with us
Student Involvement
Academic Center, HC 121